lets make a list. This of course is relationship related but feel free to make another version in an appropriate forum on other topics. Let me start: Giving a woman the option of being a freind if the attempted relationship does not work out. Telling her of the above option when yall re still getting to know one another. Being tottaly honest about you level of skill in social sitautions. Being tottaly honest about you relationship experience or lack there of. Being "nice" before she is officially your girlfriend...in other words, being the kid of idiot that does all those "nice" things women want their boyfreinds to do, in effect filling that role out while she chases what she thinks is a real man. Paying too much attention to her reactions and how she is feeling and taking heed when she claims she wants to "move slowly". anyone else want to add???? Women can join in too and list ways to @!*# up a potential relationship with a man.