Black Relationships : Does It Really Show When You're In Love - What do yall think?

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by misty, Sep 23, 2002.

  1. misty

    misty Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2001
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Occupation:
    Software Support
    Location:
    IL
    Ratings:
    +0
    Does it really show when you're in love?
    Can the person you're in love with just tell
    or do the words have to be said?

    Unsure?

    Misty
     
  2. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2001
    Messages:
    69,983
    Likes Received:
    3,978
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    BUSINESS owner
    Location:
    Da~WINDY*CITY //CHICAGO
    Ratings:
    +4,178
    well now here's da facts
    one whom so in love to be loved can see da true love
    it's just we love to hear it ..... so yes they can feel da love
    without words
    but it take a true love to feel dis kinda love

    da flyte master has spoken !!))))))>>>$R
     
  3. Bishop

    Bishop Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2001
    Messages:
    3,141
    Likes Received:
    71
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago: Overlooking the Sea called Love
    Ratings:
    +86
    As Love's Favorite Son I would like to offer that true lovers have a way of knowing the hearts and minds of their respective love. You already know my answer...Yes he knows...It shows in your eyes, body movements and conversation. Furthermore the way the brother looks at you should let you know that the feeling is most def mutual. The concern he has for you and your well being...as well as his endearing kindness and affection that he has openly showed to you.....My advice to the both of you is you that you've been dancing long enough. It's time to stand still and take in the music of your hearts...
     
  4. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2001
    Messages:
    69,983
    Likes Received:
    3,978
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    BUSINESS owner
    Location:
    Da~WINDY*CITY //CHICAGO
    Ratings:
    +4,178
    Bishop well said brutha ya on da money
    take in da sound wave of ya heart and feel
    da true love's magic wit out a word ..........

    who knows better then da son of love !
     
  5. misty

    misty Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2001
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Occupation:
    Software Support
    Location:
    IL
    Ratings:
    +0
    Its one of the situations where we act like we're in a relationship but no one has said anything.
     
  6. elayne.

    elayne. Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2002
    Messages:
    601
    Likes Received:
    0
    Occupation:
    lover of words.
    Location:
    jawja
    Ratings:
    +0

    misty. i definte-ly think that it shows when you're in love. it may be more obvious to the people who really know you... but... i think there's a difference in the way you treat everyday/ordinary events & things that 'causes even strangers to notice that you've got somethin' "special" goin' on. & the object of your affections is sure to notice as well. i think you can tell that someone loves you (&vice versa)... far more by the way that they treat you than you ever could by them just saying the words. it's sorta like the old cliche'... "actions speak louder"... feel me?

    anyway... thank you for allowing me to put my 6cents in! :D

    alwaypeace&Love,
    elayne.
     
  7. misty

    misty Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2001
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Occupation:
    Software Support
    Location:
    IL
    Ratings:
    +0
    I agree actions speak. But actions can make you assume.

    Here's another question what does 'care about you alot' mean
    when actions show love. I'm scared?
     
  8. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2001
    Messages:
    69,983
    Likes Received:
    3,978
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    BUSINESS owner
    Location:
    Da~WINDY*CITY //CHICAGO
    Ratings:
    +4,178
    many times we see it coming before it hit us
    but when one say (i care about u )
    and show fear is a step of life one must take
    to really care
    in a relationship of two and he/she speaks of caring but !
    means they have feelings but not love
    like keme said as he hit great point dis what it's all about
    and coming into it's own
    life is a chance so why can't love without fear
    if one say i care about u they can really mean it
    yet true love is not their yet
    when that time come u will know & feel the true love
    and how one truely care about the mates beings
    it's life sweetie
     
  9. MissPoetik

    MissPoetik Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Nov 25, 2002
    Messages:
    166
    Likes Received:
    0
    Ratings:
    +0
    actions defintily speak louder than words... i'd rather my man show me instead of telling me because anyone could say it. he has to prove it by his actions.... my man and i have been together for only two months but the feelings are definitly there... and we know how much power those three little words have.... we aren't ready to say it yet....
     
  10. UbZoRbShUn

    UbZoRbShUn Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Apr 2, 2001
    Messages:
    2,502
    Likes Received:
    1
    Occupation:
    -----------
    Location:
    ------------
    Ratings:
    +1
    yeah

    the term nose wide open comes to mind. people know when a couple is in love.
     
Loading...