3 years into Matrimony and I still can't get over this- Its troubling me. You refuse to change your last name, instead asking me why don't I change mine.. and though I can't argue with the logic I feel like a hyphenated extension, and I haven't made a big deal of it but this ****'s got me dipping into vexation. On the one hand I don't want to force the issue and make out as if you're some sort of property, nor do I want to seem hooked on traditional stupidity; but I'm sure fed up explaining to people who assume that your last name is mine that it ain't- Not many things get me tongue-tied but this one certainly gots my hide- Its like I know somehow that this **** ain't right but can't come up with reason to win this fight- If the two shall become one is true, then how is that oneness to be accomplished if we can't agree on a name? Or is it all the same and a name ain't where the game's really at? ****. Nice meeting y'all. This is my wife Jenny Sue; I'm Kid Rock- go figure out that.