Black Relationships : DOES AGE MATTER??

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  1. soulosophy

    soulosophy Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Greetings...

    I wanted to start this thread inspired by an article someone posted in the entertainment forum about a couple where the woman was about 20 years or more (give or take a year) older than her partner.

    It seems that when the women is older than the man, we tend to kick up stink but is the same stink kicked up when it is the other way around?

    Also, when a person is an adult, why do we make it our business to criticise or condemn other's for who they choose to be with in terms of age. Does age really matter and why?

    Peace, love, light...
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  2. Ionlyspeaktruth

    Ionlyspeaktruth Banned

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    "if you like it, I love it" that is my attitude about this. however I cannot go too young. I got guys i know that want to chase young poo-poo(19-25) all day long. The younguns seem to like me, but it is not for me. They remind me of my kids. Probly missin out on a bunch. But that's cool. I think sometimes it makes guys have a false sense of youth. I just need some more "ice cream seasons" in a woman. besides sisters are sexy and beautifull there whole lives.:) now maybe there is somebody that could make me change up. but for now...
     
  3. Bootzey

    Bootzey Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Agreed.

    Although I don't particularly care for guys that are younger than I, it wouldn't stop me from hanging out with them on a platonic basis. They are a lot of fun, but less interested in the seriousness that I am into.
     
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    I think it does, I no longer date women older than me. I only roll in my age range. The older females had too many issues.
     
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    Age really doesn't matter to me. It's all about what u want and what ur taste is.
     
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    Jazzytude Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    aGE ...HMMMM

    I personally I like older men...but will not dismiss the young tenders...LOL!!!

    I believe its all about what we want at the different times in life we are @.

    I have dated a younger male and we got along just fine...for me its about where you at mentally and I dont mean education. I mean in terms of how you are dealing with life and how you see relationships or how you percive the beauty in who you are dealing with.


    OLD SOULS SHINE THRU NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU ARE!

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  7. soulosophy

    soulosophy Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    :qqb010:


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    :star::kiss1::10900::luvv::rolling:

    Change up to what?? :?:
     
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    ice cream seasons = years
     
  9. soulosophy

    soulosophy Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    what was it about you that was attracting older women with issues?
     
  10. soulosophy

    soulosophy Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    :toasts: I like your outlook.
     
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