Black Poetry : DO YOU?

FINDLOVEINME_RETURNS

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Dear Women
When it comes to your man
Do You
See his strength or clarify his weakness ?
Do You
Believe in his dreams or remind him of his failures ?
Do You
Talk to God about him daily or talk against him with family and friends ?
Do You
Help build him up with encouragement or speak to him with disrespect or with self-righteous arguments ?
Do You
Allow him to be a man unconditionally or validate his purpose as a man base on his financial status ?
Do You
Prepare a home where he can rest his mind or make him feel that his home is built within the gates of hell ?
Do You
Show him that he is the most important part of your life or do you make him feel if though he is not needed in your life ?
Do You
Satisfy his needs as his mate without reservation or deprive his needs base on your mood or situations ?
Do You
Live if though you have prepared to love him forever or do you live with him if though you are preparing to leave him forever ?
Do You
Strive to be his best friend, a good woman, wife and partner for life, or do you spend your time trying to re-raise him, mother him, boss him, police him and compare him ?
Do You
Love and treat him the way you expect him to love and treat you or do you ask more of him than what you are actually willing to share of yourself ?

MOST IMPORTANTLY,
Although you may not be a perfect women, because no human is perfect,
You should continuously strive to unconditionally be a loyal, loving and supportive woman
DO YOU ?

Flipping the script

Sometime we fail to see the goodness in our men, because of past situations or society validation of what determine a good man.
Surely, I am not stating that every man is a deserving man of your commitment to love him, so If he is not the man that is worthy of your love, than recognized the truth in him, yourself and your relationship

If it is not worth saving then never sacrifice yourself, knowing the sacrifices you're making out ways the purpose of what you're trying to save.

MOVE ON and DO YOU, if he is not GOOD FOR YOU,

but if you decide to stay and things do not work, just remember you are no longer the victim, when you consciously accept the part to star in the role.


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