Black Poetry : DO YOU?

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  1. FINDLOVEINME_RETURNS

    FINDLOVEINME_RETURNS Member MEMBER

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    Dear Women
    When it comes to your man
    Do You
    See his strength or clarify his weakness ?
    Do You
    Believe in his dreams or remind him of his failures ?
    Do You
    Talk to God about him daily or talk against him with family and friends ?
    Do You
    Help build him up with encouragement or speak to him with disrespect or with self-righteous arguments ?
    Do You
    Allow him to be a man unconditionally or validate his purpose as a man base on his financial status ?
    Do You
    Prepare a home where he can rest his mind or make him feel that his home is built within the gates of hell ?
    Do You
    Show him that he is the most important part of your life or do you make him feel if though he is not needed in your life ?
    Do You
    Satisfy his needs as his mate without reservation or deprive his needs base on your mood or situations ?
    Do You
    Live if though you have prepared to love him forever or do you live with him if though you are preparing to leave him forever ?
    Do You
    Strive to be his best friend, a good woman, wife and partner for life, or do you spend your time trying to re-raise him, mother him, boss him, police him and compare him ?
    Do You
    Love and treat him the way you expect him to love and treat you or do you ask more of him than what you are actually willing to share of yourself ?

    MOST IMPORTANTLY,
    Although you may not be a perfect women, because no human is perfect,
    You should continuously strive to unconditionally be a loyal, loving and supportive woman
    DO YOU ?

    Flipping the script

    Sometime we fail to see the goodness in our men, because of past situations or society validation of what determine a good man.
    Surely, I am not stating that every man is a deserving man of your commitment to love him, so If he is not the man that is worthy of your love, than recognized the truth in him, yourself and your relationship

    If it is not worth saving then never sacrifice yourself, knowing the sacrifices you're making out ways the purpose of what you're trying to save.

    MOVE ON and DO YOU, if he is not GOOD FOR YOU,

    but if you decide to stay and things do not work, just remember you are no longer the victim, when you consciously accept the part to star in the role.


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  2. Angela22

    Angela22 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Loving it. :D