Black Relationships : Do you HONESTLY know what you want?

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  1. LovNThySoul

    LovNThySoul Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Since being in the relationship forum. I thought i would ask this as many people go in thinking one thing but honestly want another. Many say they know what they want but are confused and mislead the person they are seeing.

    Are you just seeking a friendship? Sex? Something deeper on a intimate level. How deep? How intimate?

    Do you honestly know what you want? Please do tell.
     
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    I want a woman that respects herself
    It can be about more than sex
    But that part has to be good
    I need a woman that can understand me
    Take the good and the bad I know I will always be there
    And when you ask how deep i want to erase a memory in her brain
    That makes a replay everyday how my inches made her walk that way
    Ya Know!!
    :donttell:
     
  3. LovNThySoul

    LovNThySoul Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I hear that. I think many people just have an idea but don't actually know what they are looking for as many people, "flip the script" on alot of folk.

    We all know what people want can change but do they know what they want now?

    Thanks for the input T.
     
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    Greetings, I want man who knows how to make love to my mind, as well as my body, One who knows how to make you think. One who knows how to strike up a good conversation, switch topics, talk about everything from east-to-west,north-and-south. A man who makes you feel like ur the only person in the room when he speaks to you. A man who's not afraid of being romantic,exspecially in public. A man who knows how to control,when he have too, a man who don't have nothing but thee up-most respect for all (QUEENS). :heart:
     
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    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    i want a large pile of money.
    i want to pile it all up in the middle of my room.
    then i want to get naked and roll around in it.

    yes, lord...........:dance:
     
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    I want a man with drive.. one whos never on vacation from life. One who is an animal in bed, and a lover in the shower.. one who will provide security for his family. One whos love is never denialble.. selfless, and strong. I want a successful career.. and the be noteworthy in history. I want to be able to be googled.. and have websites devoted to my humanitarian work... I want a nobel prize. I want to truly bring peace to the mid-east... i wasnt to be the blk modern day Mother Teresa.. i want to ba a legend! I want to make a difference in the worls.. my husband and I.. and have children who will continue our work!
     
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    when one's know know what they want is not sure of themselves
    yes i know what i want , it's meanings and direction without mislead.
     
  8. LovNThySoul

    LovNThySoul Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I've been thinking about this topic alot lately. Mainly because i've always known what i've wanted. Now things have changed for me. My mindset, the way that i act and see things. The underlying "me", so to speak is still there but now....i have changed due to ...uh...certain negative things that have influenced me greatly.

    Negative things happen but sometimes they change you. Sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad. Sometimes both.
     
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    I want love and intimacy after I have found that I believe everything else will fall into place!
     
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    I want a God fearing, loving wise respectful man...a man that LOVES himself...one who sees me as his equal....To be my back when I am weak support me in what I do…entice my mind before my body…love me completely and unconditional…a man that knows what he wants and can see us working together in what WE want out of life together… a man with a strong will power and can tell me no sometimes…for him to understand my mind set and the career goal I have made…Well it works for me because God sent me my blessing…..with a lot of extras perks

    peace
    Angel
     
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