Black Relationships : Do You Have A Price?

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by river, Aug 23, 2004.

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Would you accept a diamond ring from an adulterous husband?

  1. Yes and I would just act like nothing happened

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  2. Yes but I'd still have it out with him

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  3. Yes but I'd still divorce him

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  4. No I would not accept it

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  5. I would kill him for even trying

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  1. river

    river Watch Her Flow MEMBER

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    This thread is a spinoff from my thread about Kobe Bryant in the Open Forum.

    If your man could buy you a diamond ring to smooth things over when he has committed adultery or some other act which you find hurtful and unacceptable would you accept it?
     
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    MANASIAC Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    i know some women would shoot, I used to pump up dudes to do it too cool off they drama with their women ;-)
     
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    river Watch Her Flow MEMBER

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    The things we do for fun :laugh:
     
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    I pass on the ring. I don't really like jewlery. Money can't buy enough happiness for me to stop crying because my heart hurts...so it's doubtful I could stick around. If Kobe was sincere in his apologies, he shouldn't need a ring to convince his wife to stay.
     
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    yeah, i'll give it up for $4 mil. :grin:
     
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    maaaaaaaaaaaaan :eek:/

    I would've took it. Me and my husband would work it out but not because of the ring but because we took vows to stay together for better or for worse. I'm not condoning his actions either. The ring would be a nice touch, too.
     
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    A ring or any material object of value dont buy my trust or my love
    so i would not take the ring....far as if we would still be together...
    dont know that either but i do doubt we would....cheating is a betrayal
    and how serious he took his vows was shown in him cheating

    Peace
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    i wouldn't even try to buy my way back once busted ur out
    most of the time or wish you was the way she going to do you
    but a ring no way not even a flower the answer not in those objects
    maybe i'm the weak one if guilty of sin ! .............lol
     
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