Black Relationships : DO YOU BELIEVE IN KINDRED SPIRITS OR SOUL MATES?

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  1. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Do you believe in kindred spirits or soul mates?
    Someone you know that was made just for you?
    Like the movie love jones, they fell in and out and back in love!
    Does this exist? and if it does how do you know?
    Do you think you are with yours today?
     
  2. HoneyBrown05

    HoneyBrown05 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    YES

    I believe that God had made someone special just for me, but how would I know if that someone is the one?
     
  3. SAMURAI36

    SAMURAI36 Banned MEMBER

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    In a word: :hearthis: Yes.
     
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    Tantrum Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Nope Dont Believe
     
  5. Riada

    Riada Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I doubt it.

    I believe we have lots of kindred spirits that we could select from for a significant other. I don't think the person needs to be a perfect fit at the outset. If the basics are in place, I think many people can be molded to become a perfectly satisfying kindred spirit, but the "basics" must be there at the outset.

    Also, another problem is that many people can't see their kindred spirit or the many potential ones around them because so many of us have been programmed to cross people off the list due to their exteriors.
     
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    SAMURAI36 Banned MEMBER

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    This I agree with.
     
  7. Riada

    Riada Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Samurai, check out what I said in the "NAACP Image Award" thread and tell me what you think. Some of that is a perfect example of some of the mistakes some men make when they continue to focus on exteriors.
     
  8. Tantrum

    Tantrum Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I know I do
    Thats apart of life
    Got have an exterior
    Have to be able to look at you
    So if im passing her up because of that
    I will never find her
     
  9. Riada

    Riada Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    LOL!! At least you're honest about this, Bro. Many men pass by their kindred spirit or women who would lift them up every day and don't notice her.

    Then some of these men have the nerve to get very negative about ALL women after they've constantly pursued the woman with the so-called "great rack" and/or pretty exterior and gotten disappointed by her. I've seen this happen many times.

    But, such is life!
     
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    Its just who wouldnt want a woman
    That has herself together physically
    keeps her self well maintained
    Yet a woman does have to have more than that
    Once i get passed the exterior I want to know
    If she has just as much as I have
    I usually dont talk to woman that dont
    I feel from looks to finanaces
    You have to be on my level or trying to get there
    Just high standards I guess
     
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