Why are some MEN so confused??—who’s to BLAME? Why is it that some Black Men do not understand the basic chemistry of a woman? Why do they believe that the only thing that makes a woman different from a man is her physical make up? Why is it that some Black men do not understand that women are EMOTIONAL BEINGs? Why do some Black men believe that it is possible to separate COMMITMENT FROM THE P^&&Y? Why don’t some Black men understand the basic responsibilities of accepting a woman’s “goodies”? What happened to the INTIMACY, COMMITMENT, COMPASSION, TRUST and most of all LOVE that is suppose to follow. Why do they believe that it is possible for a woman to have sex and not want love and compassion and commitment? Do some black men really believe that a REAL woman can sleep with several men at one time? Giving IT up is worth more than the car that some men offer to buy which is PROSTITUTION! REAL WOMEN KNOW THAT PROSTITUTION IS THE ACT OR PRACTICE OF INDULGING IN PROMISCUOUS SEXUAL RELATIONS ESPECIALLY FOR MONEY! It is no secret THAT MONEY IS USUALLY OFFERED WHEN THE RING IS NOT! I thought women did not want to be test driven or leased like the demos at the dealership BORROWED AND NEVER BOUGHT. Why is it that some BLACK men do not understand that when a REAL woman sleeps with a man she is really looking for a husband? BUT over and over again.. men tell me SOME WOMEN ACTUALLY REALLY WANT TO BE TREATED WORST THAN H^s. I have been told that SOME WOMEN KNOW THAT THEY WILL NEVER BE THE WIFE SO THEY SETTLE FOR WHAT THEY CAN GET AND LIVE THE ROSTITUTE'S LIFE. I know without a doubt.. that I AM VERY RARE because I love myself first and demand respect from any man that wants to be with me. RESPECT IS NOT AN OPTION –LOVE IS… I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH A MAN.. THAT DOES NOT WANT TO MAKE ME HIS WIFE. I WILL NOT BE TEST DRIVEN. I ALSO DO NOT FEEL IT WOULD BE RIGHT FOR ME TO TEST DRIVE.. EITHER.. Being the type of woman that I am --- knowing.. that most men.. do not know what they are doing. Knowing.. how.. sensitive a mAN’s ego can be… when I have to tell him… “Honey – that was not an enjoyable experience for me” and “you do not get a second chance” – to prove to me that you are a mAN. lol I try to encourage people especially women… do not get used for sex “as a tool for masturbation” STRONG BLACK WOMEN… -- MEN DO NOT KNOW WHAT WE WANT AND EXPECT UNTIL WE TELL THEM. UNFORTUNATELY --- IT MAY BE THE TRUTH… THAT SOME BLACK WOMEN DO NOT MIND BEING TREATED LIKE THE H^…. I do not know… But for me… anything less than want I want… is SIMPLY NOT ACCEPTABLE.