Looking back over my life, my relationships and my marriages, I've come to understand that Black men usually want sex more than Black women. That's just my experience, so it doesn't have to be true because only women know the answer to that. I have of course met women who had higher sex drives but it was not the norm. I also find that men can have sex and it's just sex for them...no commitment, no strings, just sex....where as women appear to have their bodies connected to their hearts, meaning that sex generally isn't just sex for them. Is this true or not? I can imagine that this is changing as women are beginning to have sex simply on the pleasure principle as well. So the question becomes: Do women want sex as much as men do...and if so or if not, what does sex ultimately mean for both parties on a personal and relationship level?