Black Relationships : Do Black Women Want Sex as much as Black Men?

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  1. Keita Kenyatta

    Keita Kenyatta going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Looking back over my life, my relationships and my marriages, I've come to understand that Black men usually want sex more than Black women. That's just my experience, so it doesn't have to be true because only women know the answer to that. I have of course met women who had higher sex drives but it was not the norm.

    I also find that men can have sex and it's just sex for them...no commitment, no strings, just sex....where as women appear to have their bodies connected to their hearts, meaning that sex generally isn't just sex for them. Is this true or not? I can imagine that this is changing as women are beginning to have sex simply on the pleasure principle as well.

    So the question becomes: Do women want sex as much as men do...and if so or if not, what does sex ultimately mean for both parties on a personal and relationship level?
     
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    Peace,

    In my experience... perhaps its my generation and my sex drive.... but in my experience, almost every woman i have been with has always wanted sex more than I did, some a lot more than i did...and do, lol.

    I have had 'meaningless' sex before, but I learned quick that is not how i like to do things, regardless of my impulses. I tend to like to really get to know people, women especially, so even when i have tried to just have sex it hasn't worked out that way in the end.

    I am told I am a "different type of guy" so again, this is my experience.
     
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    womens want sex? who knew?:SuN013:
     
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    i think that it was balanced and now it is not and there are terms such as nympho and all. i think that the average woman does want sex just as much as men. the medias have deluded people into satisfying themselves and its all about the feeling no strings attached etc. a lot of women i think have accepted this and some have just went wild. our bodies are all out of whack and i don't think some sex drives are normal. our desires are not supposed to control us.

    i cannot have relations with someone i don't love, know and plan to stay with. i feel attached and a sense of dependency. when relationships didn't work out i felt like i gave a part of me away that i cannot get back and a deep sense of loss.
     
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    I think that women want sex more than men--if a man is hitting it right. Especially inexperienced women.

    So to put it simply--I think that everyone wants a skilled partner.

    A skilled guy with an unskilled lady won't really be breaking his neck over her like she will for him.

    Not to toot my own horn--but I know this. B-)

    But by and by--I think that men and women are largely unskilled in the bedroom. With this--men may want sex more simply because women are soo fine.

    But as to who enjoys sex more--it's the woman. Just way more nerves . . ..
     
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    Keita Kenyatta going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    So let me get this straight...are we saying that we much rather prefer to be ******** than making love?
     
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    i would prefer to be liberating my people……..
     
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    I think women want it just as much as men, but for women there is more of a mental and emotional connection that usually takes place after this. I think men can have this connection too, but it is usually more of a choice.
     
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    I have never heard a guy dumping a woman because she was bad in bed, but women have dumped men who were bad in bed even when the guy gave them everything else. I say women want it as much if not more. Men can just get quickie to satisfy himself, the woman however wants her tank to be completely full for her to be satisfied and the older she gets the more she demands it. I think that why you have to cougars on the prowl after young men these days.
     
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    I assume it goes both ways.
     
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