Black Relationships : Do All Men Cheat ?

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  1. unique

    unique Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm still trying to keep the faith that there are some good brothers out there. I know a handful but they are spoken for. I don't want to buy into the myth that there is a shortage of black men because they are in jail,gay/bi etc. Fellas can you honestly be faithful to one woman and one woman only ?
     
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    Man, women kill me everytime with this question. As though we (men) cheat more than they (women) do. Your answer is the same as if you turned it around the other way. Do all women cheat? No, all women don't cheat, but it's very had to find one that will not cheat on you. All men/women have the potential to cheat on you, it just depends on what type of person you find, and what their circumstances are at the time you two are together. It also depends on what you do and how you are when you are with that person in a relationship. Bottomline though, no, all men don't cheat.
     
  3. unique

    unique Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm a woman and I've never cheated on a mate. I've been on the receiving end a few times and it feels horrible. My female friends haven't cheated either...unfortunately from what I've seen its usually the dudes. I'm not living in a bubble though I know there are some scandolous females as well. I'm glad to hear men are capable of being faithful.
     
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    kente417mojo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I doubt that very much. I seriously doubt that unless you are hanging out with a group of nuns.

    So you haven't cheated, well, that puts you on the side of women that haven't cheated (or cheated yet).

    Not to be too nosey, but how old are you? It's cool if you don't want to say. I know most women don't.:tongue2:
     
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    Sekhemu Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    My sistah, Yes... some men do cheat, just like women cheat. I think it's about the same for both genders
     
  6. BLKWriter

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    Y'all a bunch of lying heffas. Birds of a feather I guess.

    "Only true love demands monogamy. Everything else is a game of negotaiting for trust."

    -B
     
  7. panafrica

    panafrica Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    BLKWriter:

    That is uncalled for! Unique if you ask a simple question, you get a simple answer. Do All Men Cheat? No they do not!
     
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    a man can not "cheat" without a partner.......

    some men cheat, some men don't.
    just like women.

    if you don't like men who cheat, why not gravitate toward the ones least likely to?
    you know, the ones you ladies consider boring?

    i've asked many a square girl what she was doing in my bed.
    the answer, she was looking for adventure.

    ladies choice.
     
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    daroc Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    here's a joke we have in college

    if i find out man man is cheating
    ima cheat harder!
     
  10. Radical Faith

    Radical Faith Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    The Answer

    No sister all men do not cheat. All may have moments of weakness when it comes to women but they may act upon them. More than likely (which doesn't mean all) men of high moral standard don't cheat. This is the man you should be receptive to. Prayer helps sister.


    Peace

    Radical Faith
     
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