Can someone give me a working definition for a diva!!!? I was brought up to believe a diva was a woman (an older more seasoned woman) who has gone through A WHOLE LOT to get to where she is. Whether that be going through several marriages or being hooked on drugs or alcohol and still making it out alive!!! Somebody help me!!!! Ashanti, a diva?? NO WAY Brandy, a diva?? NO WAY J.Lo, a diva??? NO WAY Debby Cox, a diva??? HOW DID YOU GET HERE?? NO WAY!!!