I have been trying to recover from my previous boyfriend, who betrayed my trust and treated me like ****. Well, I met this one guy and he is very nice, we met online and we get along real well overall. We have a lot in common and things were going well. I have been attending his church as he said that I am more than welcome to attend. We have been together for about a month now. But on the 31st of October, I was just giving him suggestion about cutting back on what he ate. So he got smart with me and said that he is his own boss and that will do things on his own term. So I felt foolish and bad about it. He told me that he takes it back and to forget about it. But I felt that he did not look at my feelings about it. So I felt hurt inside and I decided to just take him home for the night. He said that he did not mean to get smart with me. So things went smooth again. And I found out that he was liking this other girl and I have been thinking that he wants to talk to her instead of being with me. He felt bad because he lied to me and said that he did not like that female when he did. So, I have been afraid that he is going to cheat on me. I have been insecure and it is driving me up the wall. And he told me that he never will and that he would do whatever it takes for me to trust him. But I just feel insecure and every time I bring it up, he gets frustrated at me. And he says that he is frustrated because he is regretful that he lied to me at all. He told me that I need to give him a chance to show me that he is the man for me. Am I pushing too hard and he is correct or what? I need sme advice.