Did you have an idea of what you wanted in a wife before you found her? When I was 22 I only needed a wife to be pretty, have a career and be good with children. Now, 32 years later in my second marriage, my wife has these attributes, but they were not priorities this time around. This time around I decided to go on a quest to find the perfect woman. I made a list and started searching for someone that met most of ideals. Almost a year and half later and 4 women, I found my wife to be. Did she match everything on my list? NO! She actually had qualities I didn't have on my list. So I asking men, did you go on a quest to find your queen?