anAfrican said:the only possible "damage" would be to one of the egos. if that is a possible outcome of the "discussion", on an open forum, then there is something "missing" in the validity of the discussion anyway.
"true of all men"?? hogwash!! if it is, then the caliber of "men" .... oh ... looking around at the state of the world today, maybe it is true of enough of them that this world is in the mess it is? "men" ... rather "intelligence", would welcome additional input into the discussion.
if one of them gets "destroyed" by having their viewpoint "discussed" less than favorably, then that is someone is actually rather weak intellectually.
given that women have a completely different perspective on things, it is always good to hear what she says!! for the most part, though, fellas will have to pause to think through what she said to get it clear. usually what happens is that the fella will get all hot and bothered, bluster and chest thump for a while, and eventually come around to what she was saying in the first place ... without having the grace, or the "stones", to acknowledge the validity of the point. nor to apologize.
i'm always gonna give you what i think you want to hear, because Da River usually only wants to hear "truth", "clarity", honesty and knowledge. course, flattery, candy and flowers never hurt either!! thanks for being you, River!!
given that women have a completely different perspective on things. it is always good to hear what she says!! for the most part, though, fellas will have to pause to think through what she said to get it clear, usually what happens is that the fella will get all hot and bothered, bluster and chest thump for a while, and eventually come around to what she was saying in the first place...without having the grace, or the "stones", to acknowledge the validity of the point, nor to apologize
Whoa, that was on point brotha.