- Oct 11, 2003
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I just met this guy back in June at a church convention when I was out of town. We went out twice and exhchanged phone numbers while out there and contacted each other almost everyday. There were times where he would text me and if I didn't respond fast enough he would get mad. When we first met we were attracted to each other. On the last day of the convention he wanted to see me so bad. I was so busy that it was impossible. I told him that since we couldn't see each other again then we should keep in touch. I made several attempts of planting the seed of a friendship. I would call him every now and then or text him. Sometimes he would answer his phone and respond to my text and somtimes he didn't. Sometimes when we talked he was sweet and the next time he appeared rude.
After the convention he informed me that he is a affectionate person and that he really likes to cuddle. I didn't know him that well so I couldn't show him any affection. He felt that I was acting distant with him. I wasn't trying to act distant but I wanted to get to know him better.I like to take things slowly especially when I meet someone new.He wanted to ask for a kiss but didn't. I have my boundaries and refuse to kiss someone I don't know. I don't liked to be touched unless I give the person permission.
This past weekend I contacted him. I asked him about his opinion when it comes to dating. I was taught that it's wrong but I feel you must date a person to see what they are about. The response that he gave me was"If you are not committed but you have feelings for someone and he leaves you hanging for someone else then what does that make him. Nothing because you're not committed" this comment confused me. I'm not sure if he is giving me hints that he is no longer interested in me or if he's telling me that he is keeping is options open. I tried to call him so he can clarify what he was saying but he didn't take my call. I felt that he went around my original question.Last month I think that I made the mistake of hinting to him that I liked him. I set myself up and now he has control over the whole situation. I also told him that it hurts when he ignores me. When I asked him what he felt about me he did not respond. After all of this rejection I have decided to lay low and my guards are up. I deleted his number because his actions tell me what kind of person he is and that he's not the one.
What did I do wrong? I hope that I'm not jumping all over the place I just have so much on my mind right now....
After the convention he informed me that he is a affectionate person and that he really likes to cuddle. I didn't know him that well so I couldn't show him any affection. He felt that I was acting distant with him. I wasn't trying to act distant but I wanted to get to know him better.I like to take things slowly especially when I meet someone new.He wanted to ask for a kiss but didn't. I have my boundaries and refuse to kiss someone I don't know. I don't liked to be touched unless I give the person permission.
This past weekend I contacted him. I asked him about his opinion when it comes to dating. I was taught that it's wrong but I feel you must date a person to see what they are about. The response that he gave me was"If you are not committed but you have feelings for someone and he leaves you hanging for someone else then what does that make him. Nothing because you're not committed" this comment confused me. I'm not sure if he is giving me hints that he is no longer interested in me or if he's telling me that he is keeping is options open. I tried to call him so he can clarify what he was saying but he didn't take my call. I felt that he went around my original question.Last month I think that I made the mistake of hinting to him that I liked him. I set myself up and now he has control over the whole situation. I also told him that it hurts when he ignores me. When I asked him what he felt about me he did not respond. After all of this rejection I have decided to lay low and my guards are up. I deleted his number because his actions tell me what kind of person he is and that he's not the one.
What did I do wrong? I hope that I'm not jumping all over the place I just have so much on my mind right now....