This is about something very personal to me. I don't care how it comes off. Don't care how you perceive it. It's perception is reality. To make a long story short is this, how can you expect a man to be a honest, extremely loving good man, be open to you? How can he be loving when any action of being loving (in a relationship or getting to know that person) is seen as needy or an instant turn off to you? I see many people that lie to men as a whole stating that the want 1 thing and when given, is rejected. I know that now, i keep my distance as i have been taken advantage of many times over. Now some could say i was being naive. How can anyone be naive when it comes to loving each other. That's a cop-out for being evil. I swear that in this society, if you are a loving brotha that has a good heart. You are considered soft and not worthy. I guess i need to keep my mind, heart and soul prepared for being by myself cause this is the way it's been heading all my life. I am venting so thanks for bearing with me.