Destee's Thoughts Destee's First Youtube Video - Youtube Removed It - Then Put It Back !!!

Destee

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As far as flagging goes, i've seen a few video's with people talking about flagging issues. They said that Youtube don't even investigate the allegations; They just draw a conclusion based on the fact that it was flagged.
Now i hate to be one to gossip, but that's what some complained about.

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Yes Sister ... you know how difficult it is to manage this community ... complaints, etc. ... so i'm sure it's worse there.

They probably do just remove flagged stuff, but I hope they will put it back, once they see there's no issues with the video.

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Oh My God! You gotta be kidding! Well anyway...

...to the Queen that you are anyway...

...In my opinion, somebody is jealous...I hope all goes well because it was a lovely blog and I appreciate your message board and I will try to do the right thing...

thanks you Sister Destee for your patience...
 

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'Flagged' is where someone pushes that button that says the video is offensive?

I'm sorry. Really I am.

I try to stay off your good and bad sides (you and your mods) so i didn't comment on the video but it was a very nice video.

I hesitate to call anyone a 'hater' or 'jealous' because those words get tossed around so much they lose meaning, and those words commonly drop from the mouths of people who obviously need the attention of the one they brand as a 'hayta.'

I've been branded a 'hayta' and jealous and it wasn't even that. If I went after somebody, it was more like... retribution for a perceived indiscretion.

But in any case, hatin, jealousy, retribution - it plays more against the person giving it out than the person it was intended for. It doesn't come from a calm, secure, and settled place; but one of unsettled, lonely, passive aggressiveness and insecurity.... and it's easier to attack a person when they are at their most benign and most innocent.

I sound like a horrible person, but not all of this was from me, but from observation and empathy of human behavior.

I hope your video gets put back up soon. It's good representin of the Destee community. I'm sure once they take a gander of it they will see that it didn't violate any rules of that community.
 

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'Flagged' is where someone pushes that button that says the video is offensive?

I'm sorry. Really I am.

I try to stay off your good and bad sides (you and your mods) so i didn't comment on the video but it was a very nice video.

I hesitate to call anyone a 'hater' or 'jealous' because those words get tossed around so much they lose meaning, and those words commonly drop from the mouths of people who obviously need the attention of the one they brand as a 'hayta.'

I've been branded a 'hayta' and jealous and it wasn't even that. If I went after somebody, it was more like... retribution for a perceived indiscretion.

But in any case, hatin, jealousy, retribution - it plays more against the person giving it out than the person it was intended for. It doesn't come from a calm, secure, and settled place; but one of unsettled, lonely, passive aggressiveness and insecurity.... and it's easier to attack a person when they are at their most benign and most innocent.

I sound like a horrible person, but not all of this was from me, but from observation and empathy of human behavior.

I hope your video gets put back up soon. It's good representin of the Destee community. I'm sure once they take a gander of it they will see that it didn't violate any rules of that community.
I guess you can look at the branding of a “hater” as such. Especially if you’ve been branded that before. It’s of my personal perspective, if there were a confrontation, and I could not settle it within the confines it all began, I would not seek to settle it at an inappropriate time, when that person was doing something totally different from what my dispute was about. I would not try to sabotage any efforts that did not pertain to what my dispute was in the beginning


I guess there are other words I could have used to describe such deeds. But anyone who discreetly/indirectly seek revenge rather settle a dispute openly, has hater tendencies to me. And I Have to disagree with your premise below:

But in any case, hatin, jealousy, retribution - it plays more against the person giving it out than the person it was intended for. It doesn't come from a calm, secure, and settled place; but one of unsettled, lonely, passive aggressiveness and insecurity.... and it's easier to attack a person when they are at their most benign and most innocent.
Calling a spade a spade seldom has anything to do with such. It's more of a self-acknowledgement that there are haters, and they will do almost anything to disrupt any little peace one may have. Also, in this particular situation, it may not even be the acts of a hater. It could just be some misunderstood guidelines about youtube policies. But still, it does not disqualify the spiteful, jealous, retributions of a possible hater.

But Thank you for sharing your observation with me!

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