destee seems to have attracted a diverse group of posters. that is a good thing. we can help each other and there is much we can learn. that is if we can stop cussin and fussin at one another. if someone is from far away, they probably have a different background and worldview. this does not make them bad just different. i like diversity. if every one is as smart and knowledgeable as folk pretend that they are we should be able to get along better. anyone willing to try?