Today, it seems that a black man can't take a decent "dunk" without another black man coming behind him to accuse him of dropping "turds" like the White Man. ARE we trying to be like our white counterparts in every little trivial thing we do? What exactly is Being Black anymore? What defines us as black people? Our actions or is it psychological? In your opinion, what are the qualities/characteristics/mannerisms.....of the ideal Black man or woman.