How do parents deal with teens who have became out of control in behavior/ their anger problem and disrespectful action, even from substance abuse / peer pressure. Many teens have been diagnosed with attention deficit disorder (ADD), bipolar disorder, BD or conduct disorder and addiction, those diagnosed with attention deficit disorder (ADD), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), conduct disorder and bipolar disorder. There is hope and help with steps many parents can take to change the life of a teen child. when teens become rebellious what do we do ??? maybe these few tips can help 1.Treatment and behavior modification facilities for teens. 2.Parents taking time to listen it there child/ren and understanding them 3.Teens with moderate acting out behaviors will respond to limit-setting and structure which i call making of a home setting rules 4.not only parents but adults can help by reflecting good will that they (Children/teens) can be open/ telling them they are worthy/ give them some confidence and structure. I'm sure there are more things we can do in helping our children/ Teens do add what you think and feel can help these very things could save a life . Many parents give up / stop caring and ready to walk away saying it's in Gods hand well that same hand you in as well, so every step your teen make is a reflection of you. what are some other solutions for our today teens whom become out of control ????? most of this is my thoughts and questions from research and talking to a host of teens these children feel parents just don't listen nor understand them , when we all been a child ourselves. I found that some people / parents look for professional help or guiding to deal with out of control teens. It all start from home so where did parents go wrong ?