Black Men : DEALING with our many ISSUES

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  1. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    Some black men say black women are unrealistic in their expectations and want. Without straight and candid communication, we can't solve the issues that surround us without first understanding them.

    This will open up on different issues a lot of men face and deal with today !
    I want to discuss some of these issues that i find to be upon us or why do we accept them.

    Some women, without even knowing it, are driving the men who love them right out of their lives. For the most part, women aren't getting information about men straight from the source. They're asking other women, listening to so-called relationship experts, and believing statistics. While those sources may be helpful and provide some information, nothing is as accurate as asking men what they think and feel. This list of ten things women do that drive men away will be compiled from informal infomation every brother share.
    This list will help our Queens better understand as well overstand us more better, and what to change and or beaware of
    that will keep us at home / loving and communicating.

    I'm not looking for no sociologists, psychologists, or relationship experts, just everyday black men /working men and brothers who been and or seen these kinda issues first hand.
    I wanted to compile a list of ten things that men wished women knew. A list that would bridge the gap between men and women, let us communicate and expose any taboos, issues, that need to be brought into the open. In that spirit, as we began our discussion.
     
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    Keep in mind I'm not looking for a list of mean-spirited complaints but true real issues that have us today so gap out /apart and un-married.


     
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    In the Spirit of Sankofa and Peace and Love!

    ...........Trust.

     
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    thankz brother Clyde , Trust is a major factor when man and woman begin a bond
    and often as i know of , They start off and somehow break that trust!

    WHY ?
     
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    Good question...Why? ( its good each tub stands on its own bottom :))

     
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    yes and you will find some flat, can it be why we have drawn apart from our traditional means ?
    and from the breaking of such trust that once stood tall/real and with meanings !?
     
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    Quite possible brother $$RICH$$, quite possible.

     
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    Thanks brother clyde you been of much help !
     
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    Very welcome brother $$RICH$$, hope more comes into this discussion, we need it.

     
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    On point/on time commentaries etc.

    I. e., exchanges on the positive and progressive side, respectful and truly inspiring ones...

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