I have to rant, because they don't have the blogs on here yet. I can't speak about all men, just the men who are around my age (28-35). They are punks! They talk about how they want a strong black woman, but then when a woman comes with a head on her shoulders and is about something, the man can't handle it...then they run and disappear. Just like some will say, Women are attracted to "Bad Boys", I feel that men are attracted to weak women/girls. They want a woman who will put out within the first month of dating; they want a woman who will agree with everything they say and pretty much doesn't have a mind of her own. So, this is how it usually goes for me...and again I generally notice this with most of the guys in my age range. Everything is cool and he's all nice. We'll talk on the phone, hang out..whatever. Him and I will be talking about something and it will be a small disagreement, nothing major. I give him my opinion about a matter. Then he disappears. A argument doesn't even necessarily have to happen, and he'll just be out. Nothing like, "Hey this isn't going to work out," or "Is it cool that we're just friends?"...and "Hey I'm talking to someone else." Men don't understand how to communicate effectively. Why couldn't you tell me this in the first place? Did you think I was gonna get all up in arms about you leaving? This is why women go nuts...It's not that you left, it's how you left. Strong women can handle your reason for leaving if you tell them. I'm not talking about the women who flip out and go nuts, cause they aren't mentally strong. Straight up wishy-washy is what it is.