- Nov 16, 2011
Are you asking me?LOL...I try to be humble when receiving a compliment and some jokes are just jokes...that doesn't always imply flirting...When you joke with me, are you flirting with me? Do you wanna sleep with me?
I plead the 5th.When you told Destee that you were surprised that she has a hard time finding someone to date, were you implying you wanted to date her or bed her??
No, but seriously, what I mean is that men don't really turn down sex. Like for me, it's no so much that I think of sex (at all) or that I want sex from someone, but if a woman suggests a good way to spend 5 minutes, I can give her 3.
That's the point. As far as we are socialized about 'the good ole days,' men and women dated strictly for marrying purposes. Case and point, you'd ask a Father for permission to date a woman. Today, if she has a Father in the home, you're sneaking behind old man's back.And you're absolutely right, because CLEARLY not everyone's definition of dating and hanging out are going to be the same...But that's why I think it's important to make it clear on what your intentions are when coming into those types of situations...But for the most part most people already know what it is...
A boyfriend is something...Unless you just jump right into marriage.
For instance, how many of your dates have you introduced to the 'rents?