Discussion in 'Law Forum - Prisons - Gun Ownership' started by Kazz, Nov 7, 2004.
Would any of you women date a man who's currently in prison?
love takes you to the craziest places. if you love a man and he's in prison then go for it. i must admit though it would be very difficult to deal with because you'll be wonderin and worrying about him. it's about as bad as a long distance relationship.
we had another thread speaking on something like this !
every man jailed is not deadly ....i'm not a woman but from my
eyez i say why not ! he's a man human just like the next man walking down
the street he no more scary then the blind date could be so why not date
a guy from prison ???
I don't know about this. Like Rich, I'm not a woman either, but I often hear black women complain about the lack of "good black men" available. One of the reasons for this, these same women claim, is because we are either gay, DL, already married, don't date black women, or are in PRISON.
There are plenty of black men who aren't in prison, and there aren't a plethora of "good black women" available to us either. So the way I see it, if a woman is willing to date a man in prison then that's her choice; just don't complain about there not being any good men available if it doesn't work out.
i know of a cat who was in da joint for attempted murder of his girlfriend.
he picked up another woman while he was in there and moved in with her when he got out.
so the point is ......was it all good and from a prisoner stand point upon his
release to be with this woman and no harm came to her.....everyone who
return back to the streets from prison is not good but we have a lot of bruthas
who are worthy to give a chance too not all .....
That is true brother Solo...especially about there not being a lot of single, good black women either. Man I tell you this I was blessed with a good woman, but Lord know I wouldn't want to be single again...the search is difficult! On this topic, Kazz this is a repeat of a rather long thread held just 2 weeks ago, you might want to check that one out!
I must say, I am not all for someone dating a person in prison. I mean if they are willing to wait for that person to be released to society, than to each her own or his own; however, I do think their are other single options availble for the person on the outside, if they choose to accept them.
If they person was dating the person before they were incarcerated then that is a bit different, but if a woman is actively seeking men in prison as dating partners, that may warrant a visit to a doctor. It makes no sense to actively seek men in prison when their are alot of men availble on the outside.
However, too each his or her own.
I have been blessed with a good lady too, so I am glad I aint single either . I will be posting pictures of Barbie (Her) and Ken (Me) or Bobby and Kendra Soon .
THAT'S JUST DUMB!!!
THAT'S MY "BIG" OPINION.
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