What is date Rape, and how do you defind it to be a Rape ? I've seen where different sex was on a date only to end up in a nightmare now this have worked down a two way street where the female has been raped as she called it when she led the male on and played around undressing only to back out once they have started engaging intercourse. What about the woman who are given a drug and then have sexual contact aware of what's going on but didn't say yes nore did she say STOP! I guess when you defind Date rape it's looked at from a large window it's even been said if one mate consent it and say it's enough it's rape! even between husband & wife the lable of rape has enter the bedroom where do rape end ! when one mate want it and the other don't but do it anyway some call it mental rape . what is mental rape ? Many Dates have turn dreadful and painful yet unforgivable .