Forgive me in advance.. may be tmi But I'm in need of some frivolous entertainment.. *sigh* I was out last night and ran into an ex from a few years ago.. although calling him an 'ex' is a stretch. I was a single parent, high pressured job, not looking for anything qua relationship - Add the complication of me being his bosses boss did add an element of.. somethin' I had almost completely forgotten about him until yesterday.. and it reminded me of some pretty loony stuff.. actually, something siginificant that changed our entire 'arrangement'... here it is.. This is was a cool, calm, collected Black man - 40ish. 10 year divorced, 2 teenage kids. excellent host, nice apartment, cooked well, great music, black power etc.. one evening at his place he brings out a bunch of photo's (inwardly I groan.. but ok.. it's only a handful) and they are photos of his sister. "lovely looking woman", I say because she is immaculate: model precision type make-up, perfect cared for hair, pristine beautiful outfit. I flip to the next photo. It is his sister again.. in nothing but a bra and a skirt. (ack!?!) but I just kinda go "hmmmm.. ok".. then move to the next - again said sister striking a sexy pouty pose on a doorframe. (now I'm bothered.. what the heck kind of *brother* is this?).. the words are on my lips when it hits me.. I recognize that "pout" - these are photo's of HIMSELF! *choke choke* *gasp gasp* my reaction prompted him to quickly take the pics back and claim they were just him and his buddies fooling around.. but comeon.. what 40 year old man does that? and sooo.. convincingly? A sense of morbid curiosity makes me wonder what the rest were like.. but nah. It also brought up some loony thoughts.. when I'd catch him on IM and ask him what's he's up to.. he'd say 'practicing his pole dancing'.. that should have been a sign, under normal circumstances Who's next?