Why is it you men get so sucked in by the damsels in distress? Do you not know that they only show what you need to see for them to be the one who you are led to believe are needed so? Don't you know it is almost always an act? Where is your ego at? Low ebb tide that you need to hide behind her tears and cries of "oh help me so?" Is your self esteem that low? Why can't you be a friend to someone like me? Take it slow get to know a woman who will not con you. A woman who can take care of herself who won't just sit on a pitiful "woe is me" shelf. Who will appreciate you for all you do Truthfully love you and not just herself.