Black Relationships : da chicken or da egg?

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  1. jamesfrmphilly

    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    in the sixties we were more together, much more.
    in the sixties we were more sexual, also much, much more.

    were we more together because we were more sexual or were we more sexual because we were more together?

    i have this theory that free and open sexuality is a glue that holds a community together.

    not just between a couple but between all members of the group.
    every one gets a taste. no one feels left out.
    it keeps a smile on every one's face, men and women.
    it makes a man want to stand and fight for that community.
    it binds.
    it bonds.
     
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    I have a dream...
    that blk folk be allowed to participate in orgys..
    and tantric excercizes..
    oral..
    and all in between..
    And be not ashamed of their sexuality..
    but use it as a means of communication..
    I also have a dream of there being no std's in the world..
    But as long as there are..
    It will remain a dream..
    cause I dont need shrooms growing in my drawers!
     
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    i lived your dream in real life and things overall were much more mellow in the community.
    I ask which came first, the chicken or the egg?

    BTW - i have never had an STD nor have any of my friends
     
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    Great-- I have known people not to share their std stories with their friends... i mean.. ppl often feel dirty after contracting em.. ive seen married wmen get em.. and not tell a soul.. at the crisis center. But Richmond virginia .. has the largest number of herpes in the united states.. according to the cdc, adn norfok had the most std's perios.. so round here'.. aint nobody swingin.. or havin any love fests/...
     
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    This is a little off topic but....

    I think the vast majority of venereal diseases come from improper hygien.

    A person is supposed to wash their entire body after sex.

    Instead, some people rarely bath at all, and have sex several times a week allowing all types of filth and germs collect all over their sexual organs and diseases flourish.
     
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    the chicken

    i AGREE.. THATS WHY OTS BEST TO DO IT IN THE SHOWER! lol.. :laugh:
     
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    when ever you talk about sex or sensuality nowadays someone brings up STD.
    it has become a conditioned reflex.
    i started a thread with a very specific question.
    that question was never addressed as the thread was immediately turned to STD issues.

    i am not denying that STD is a real problem.
    i do think the conservatives have used the STD issue to effectively kill sex.
    righteous, warm, sensuality has been killed off in the community.
    do you feel better now that it's dead?

    i do notice that everyone is at each others throats nowadays.
    on this site we mostly fight and fuss.
    it takes a full time staff just to keep you all apart.
    how many people have been banned for fighting?
    could we have used a positive contribution from those people, yes.

    so sex is dead and mellow is gone.
    i asked if there may be a connection, a cause and effect.
    STD is immediately thrown in to take us off track.

    is the stress and hostility in the community due to the death of sex and sensuality?
     
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    Poetic

    :yo: I've been told by some women that sex with me in the shower is like trying to climb a greasy flag-pole.




    James

    :court: CALM DOWN JAMES DAAAYYUUUMMMMM!!!!!!

    Personally, I agree with you that it should be a group thang.

    Everyone in the community should atleast get thier satisfaction of wealth, love, sex, respect. ect....that way no one feels left out.


    And you're abosultely right about it making a man want to stand up and fight for the community.


    I know most bruthaz aren't gonna put their lives on the line and risk harm just to fight for women who they have no chance of screwing or getting love from.
    Why should they?

    Just like so many of these women on here who are always beating up on me while caressing other bruthaz just because they sweet talk them; I say let them same men they give thier love to do the fighting.

    I only fight for MY women, not somebody elses.

    As long as you have these imbalances of wealth and social status in our community you'll have plenty of resentment and anger.
     
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    I say this... there should be an open and acceptable club that maintained health recorde on its participants..and allowed sexual fraternization.. I woule be all for it.. if every man cam with his "lineage" of contacted std's.. and current paperwork stating him being clean.. im sure id be glad to be free sexually.. but you also must look at the way different religions see sex.. now if i sat and reflected on it id more than likely condemn myself for my actions.
     
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    imho the two have nothing to do with each other...we were mo together because for the most part we were segregated from mainstream america...as we assimilated our black bond became castrated...

    one love
    khasm
     
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