in the sixties we were more together, much more. in the sixties we were more sexual, also much, much more. were we more together because we were more sexual or were we more sexual because we were more together? i have this theory that free and open sexuality is a glue that holds a community together. not just between a couple but between all members of the group. every one gets a taste. no one feels left out. it keeps a smile on every one's face, men and women. it makes a man want to stand and fight for that community. it binds. it bonds.