Black People : Connect mind, body, soul : Tantric Love

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    Shems Nbedjer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Regardless of the definition, the basis of tantric love making is on honest and open communication, and creating intimacy between partners before the sexual act itself. Even though some claim that sex is best when it is wild and without emotions, tantra is the total opposite. In tantra, before making love, you need to dance, sing, cuddle, open your heart, and what is the most important – communicate. First of all the skills of deepening intimacy are developed, and after that love is made in which the participants of tantra can enjoy for hours.

    It's believed in classic Tantra that if two people cultivate and practice the art of Tantric union (intentfull sexual intercourse) that their combined energies would form a pathway to the divine. Their joy and bliss would fill their household with love, and that, in turn, would make their children happy and flow over into the whole community. Everyone would benefit from this practice of conscious loving.

    Tantric union enables healing to take place as well by using the powerful energy of creation to blast through ego, fear, and illusions. Tantric union is not a path to sexual indulgence or self-gratification, and like with anything in life, due diligence must be followed if looking for a teacher to train with.

    Tantric union isn't just a matter of techniques. If that's all it took, everyone would be Tantric masters at loving. There are enough books on sexual technique to keep you reading for a lifetime. It takes a spiritual relationship with oneself first, in order to create that path with another. A spiritual relationship makes sexual union a magical space, not the other way around.

    Learning to be conscious of our sexual energy can enhance not only our lovemaking, but also our entire lives. Sexual energy is the most powerful force that we have; when harnessed it can be used for more creativity and life enjoyment.
     
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    I concur, I have seen some wonderful effects manifested through this powerful yet uncomplicated method. The power we have at our disposal is ignored or abused by most of us.
     
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    I have read about this and it seem to be a beautiful thing.. If folks would refrain from the performance level thinking that has engulfed this modern world, with its trivialisation of sex, and focus on the spiritual aspect, I am sure there would be REAL enjoyment of sex.
     
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    Whoa momma, tantric sex is occult knowledge, you sure you wanna go there? Lol...
     
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    Call it what you will, love and sex was created by God and he said what he made was very very good. No one owns the technique of love and sex....the sexual energy that folks have is an individual thing..brother.
     
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    Fa true dat. But the knowledge of the techniques on how to utilize that sexual energy in such a way to affect change on the physical realm of existence is not generally known among the masses. When's the last time you heard somebody say "I got this really cool job that I always wanted by doing this tantric sex ritual!"? The concept of tantric sex itself falls under the concept of occult knowledge meaning: beyond the range of ordinary knowledge or understanding;mysterious. or secret; disclosed or communicated only to the initiated.
     
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    before the sex talk goes too far ...

    this thread is closed

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