Hi Everyone, I have a question? I have been married or almost three years now. My husband was deployed to I raq for 14 months. H e has been back for for 6 months. One week before he was due home i had an affair with a woman. Now I cant stop thinking about this woman. I dont think that Iam in love with him. I dont know what to do. Should I let him go so he can find someone who can love him the was he should be loved ? I was in three year relationship with a woman before we were married. My moms told me that I could grow to love him but its not happening. What should I do ?