Black Relationships : Coincidence or Just Wierd? You Be The Judge...

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  1. gottaluvher143

    gottaluvher143 Member MEMBER

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    A few weeks before Valentine's Day I recieved a package on my door step that included: 2 stuffed Valentine's Hearts and a card that read: To the pretty longhaired girl. Wierd? Indeed, yet I was still a little intrigued. The card included a number and the name "Meechie" (inside I'm praying to God that this is a nickname), and before my "smart ***" (pun intended) thought about what the hell I was doing, I dialed the number before blocking out my own. Luckily, I got no answer.

    So, A few days later, the number pops up on my caller identificator (LOL 2009, no more abbreviations). However, by this time I had decided that If "Mister Secret Admirer" was about anything real, he would've had the balls to approach me. He obviously knew where I lived and had seen me. Therfore making what he did, borderline stalkish. I ignored the first 8 calls (yes, 8) but got a hilarious laugh out of some of the messages he left.

    MESSAGE # 1: (wierd/stalker voice. LaughingOutLoud) "Wassup, 'dis Meechie. Tell ya sissuh (apparently he thought he was leaving a message on my sister's phone) don't be scedd (scared). I jus' wanna get to know her. I'm tryin to find me a real woman. But they won't gi' me a chance.* Tell her call me. Dis Meechie."
    *I wonder why they wont "give you a chance". I'd be skeptical too, "StalkerMan"

    MESSAGE # 2: (wierder stalker voice. RollingOnTheFloorLaughingMyAssOff) "Hey girl, dis Meechie. You answered last time and hung up on me. Don't be scared."
    *I had a momentary lapse in judgement and just flipped my phone open without seeing who was calling.

    So, after the 9th call I decided "what the hell?" I'm just gonna answer and try to find out who the hell he is and if nothing else, tell him to please stop calling me. So, I'm at work one day and his number (which I have now saved in my phone as "Don't Answer") pops up. So I answer. Conversation goes as follows:



    Me: Hello?
    MEECHIE: 'Sup?
    Me: Yes?
    MEECHIE: 'dis Meechie
    Me: Yes, I got your gift, Thanks. What's your real name?
    MEECHIE: Demetrius.
    Me: Where do you know me from?
    MEECHIE: We went to school together.
    Me: Ummm ok, well again thanks for the gift, but could you please not call me again?
    MEECHIE: huh? I mean we can't....
    Me: Thanks for the gift. Bye!


    And that was the last I heard from Mister MEECHIE. Or so I thought. Now, fast forward to a couple days ago. I get a MySpace message from a friend I will call "CoolChick" saying that a friend of hers saw me on her page, and asked her to get in touch with me for him. At first, I'm skeptical, but again being the "WhatTheHell" kinda person I am, trust her good judgement and get the guys number. I ask her what his name is and she says, "MEECHIE". Lightbulb! Inside I'm thinking "wait a minute". I give her the rundown of my previous happenings with a "MEECHIE" and ask her opinion. CoolChick says: COINCIDENCE.
    I don't know people. I have yet to call the latest MEECHIE. Although I plan to. I told CoolChick that Iwould start off with a text maybe, but the determining factor is most definitely going to be voice comparison, so eventually I will have to talk to him.


    I will keep you posted. But for now, I need opinions?
     
  2. Da Street So'ja

    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    lol

    2 meechie's in the same universe lol

    :haha:

    i say a weird concidence

    and whichever direction "meechie" is heading

    i would hope that's you i see heading in the opposite direction

    :uhh:

    :donttell:

    :garbage:
     
  3. Astrologer4U

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    I think this situation is more weird than coincidence. It's quite obvious Meechie likes you and he is very determined to get with you. I think for sure, it is the same Meechie you are once more encountering. Aren't you the least bit curious to talk to him and find out what makes him tick?

    I think what he did was quite unique, however, I would wonder why he just could not approach me directly. Me my self, I like weird encounters, I think I am karmically connected to weird situations and I learn a lot from them. I don't see anything wrong with calling the man, if you don't get with him, at least you could gain a good friend. Nothing wrong with making a new friend. You could always be straight up with him and let him know that you would like to be friends with him if nothing else. If he can't accept that, that would be on him, at least you considered giving him a chance to be in your life.
     
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    INDEED this a more weird situation then any surely it's the same person who seem to
    have this thing for you , maybe this person have an obsession for you ! becareful and aware!

    But see what this person really wants and looking for but always think and use your gut feelings keep us posted !

    2 of them whoa .....one and the same is what we have here ......
     
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    RUN FORREST RUN!!

    GURL, I WOULD NOT ENTERTAIN NONE OF THAT ISH FROM NO STALKER. AS A WOMAN, YOU NEED TO PROTECT YOURSELF. I AM SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE. I HAVE HAD A FEW STALKERS IN MY DAY, AND THEY ARE HARD TO GET RID OF TOO! I NEVER EVEN HAD RELATIONS WITH THESE MEN, NOR DID I ENTERTAIN THEM AND THEY JUST LOST IT. GO FIGURE?

    FOR THE SAKE OF THIS STORY, WHAT IF YOU TALKED TO HIM ONCE, AND HE JUST BLOWS YA PHONE UP, OR JUST START SHOWING UP AT YOUR HOUSE?? ASK YOURSELF THIS, HOW DID YOU FEEL ON A GUT LEVEL WHEN YOU HEARD THE NAME MEECHIE AGAIN FROM COOLCHICK? THERE IS YOUR ANSWER RIGHT THERE AND DON'T IGNORE IT. PAY ATTENTION SISTA, AND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO GET ADVICE FROM OTHERS WHEN SOMETHING DOES NOT FEEL RIGHT. IT AIN'T THAT SERIOUS!

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  6. gottaluvher143

    gottaluvher143 Member MEMBER

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    I would first like to thank everyone for their suggestions. It's currently 9:30 on saturday. I've had Meechie # 2's number for about a week and a half (maybe more) and have decided to give Mr. Meechie a simple "wassup text" to start off. I will be sure to let ya'll know how it goes. And keep the advice coming. I really do appreciate it.
     
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    Thanks for the update, please keep us posted.



    Astrologer4U
     
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