Black Relationships : Cleric Says No Rape in Marriage?

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  1. Kemetstry

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    U.K. cleric: Rape is impossible within marriage
    Husbands 'may be made to ask forgiveness ... That should be enough'

    LONDON — A leading Muslim cleric has sparked controversy in Britain by claiming that it is impossible for men to rape their wives.

    Sheikh Maulana Abu Sayeed, who is president of the Islamic Sharia Council, told a website that "sex is part of marriage" and suggested that husbands who commit such acts should not be prosecuted.


    .."Clearly there cannot be any rape within the marriage," he told The Samosa website. "Maybe aggression, maybe indecent activity... Because when they got married, the understanding was that sexual intercourse was part of the marriage, so there cannot be anything against sex in marriage. Of course, if it happened without her desire, that is no good, that is not desirable."

    Sayeed runs Britain's largest network of Islamic sharia courts, The Independent reported.

    Rape within marriage has been illegal in Britain since 1991.

    Sayeed told The Samosa that if husband "does something against her wish or in a bad time" that he "may be disciplined, and he may be made to ask forgiveness. That should be enough."

    When contacted by The Independent, the cleric added: "In Islamic sharia, rape is adultery by force. So long as the woman is his wife, it cannot be termed as rape. It is reprehensible, but we do not call it rape."



    "The majority of rapes do not take place through strangers attacking women late at night but between acquaintances and within marriages and partnerships," he told The Independent.

    Inayat Bunglawala, chairman of Muslims4UK, added: "Sheikh Sayeed's comments are woefully misguided and entirely inappropriate. Rape — whether within marriage or outside it — is an abominable act and is clearly against the law."
















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  2. river

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    SAY NO TO MOOKIE!!!!!!!!!

    even if he's your husband
     
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    In a patriarchal religion where a woman is supposed to obey her husband how can she say no?

    Islam is based on Judeo-Christianity and the Mossic awe makes it clear rape is not a crime against the woman but against the man who owns her, it is her husband, fiance or father.

    Notice the British has no law against rape in marriage until 1991.
     
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    lol

    Mookies need love too

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    Darn those British

















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    Eph. 4:
    [31] Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
    [32] And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you

    Eph. 5:
    [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
    [28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.


    Col. 3:
    [19] Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.


    1 Cor. 7:
    [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
    [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
    [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
     
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    I can go along with that, so long as the same logic is applied to murder ... impossible in marriage ... yeah ... we can do this ... i'ze ready ... :uzi:

    God will have blessed us both, to do the impossible ... :angel1:

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    Is there a part in there about witholding sex being considered bitter????
















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    TThis is just part of your womanly duties. Take one for the team. You should want him happy and satisfied

















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    Ohhhh ... with pleasure ... after he does what he wants, and rapes me ... he will be totally, completely, infinitely satiated ... resting peacefully and forever, with God.

    :heart:

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