Hey Brothas, I came accross this story and was rather intrigued by the polarity of feelings that must be involved. The woman and her friends. The man and his friends. She is not even referred to as a woman but as a female. Thought I'd run it by you and now I have two questions. 1. In your mind and heart is there a difference between a woman and a female? 2. Is it right for a man to have to pay child support for a ten year old child he has never seen who has been addopted by the mother's husband just because the husband is unable?