Black Women : Child Harassed on YouTube

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  1. nevar

    nevar Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    First of all let me say I don't condone this behavior. But what that boy did was plain wrong, and should recieve the ultimate punishment. If you don't want somebody do the right thing by leaving them, and not posting sexual acts on Youtube. I am very displeased with Youtube for allowing this little boy to humiliate this girl. I am speaking as she is the victim, and she is. I feel sorry that this little girl have to suffer this humiliation. I stress again she had no business doing or giving oral sex at a school. That boy was a boy to have his friend videotape her doing that to him. I am willing to bet this girl didn't have no idea he had set her up like that. We were all teen-agers once, and we all did things we was ashame of. The difference between her and us is they didn't have camera phone to catch people in the act. It was the old fashioned word of mouth, and that was even damaging. I think a new law should go into affect in this situation for people who are victimized in such an awful way. How her mother feel, and Amber knowing that millions have watched this filth. And that Youtube is condoning child pornograpy someone asked me have I seen it. What kind of a question is that of course I didn't want to see that. That could have been my daughter, and I certainly don't want to see no young lady doing grown people things. What is this epidemic of oral sex teen-agers view it as being acceptable sex? I can remember a time when you didn't hear of people having oral sex it was a taboo thing. Now it is acceptable I hear men love talking about orally instead of penetration. I swear it just pains me to know that kids 14 and under is having oral sex. They have the concept of saving themselves, or their virginity. But would rather have oral sex because it is the new norm. I hope and pray Amber get the justice she deserves. What she did was wrong, and this goes to show that we have to talk more with our kids about sex. Not just the birds and bees but everything that comes with it. What is your opinion on this matter? How would you handle this situation if this was your daughter?
     
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    Well me not a sister but a Father whom have a girl child , this sad me highly that this
    child is being tormented in the worse way by youtube I agree they shouldn't have allowed
    it and nor should FACEBOOK / TWITTER they all llowed this to go on i've read message
    boards and such where 47 and 30 plus men talking about she get down like that where she at
    i've seen where young ladies /adult women talking about she a little PRO/and a H-word
    but do they know where there own daughter at what she doing don't they know this child
    is some MOTHER's baby !
    Amber Cole is displayed cross the world in a badge of shame yes she was in the wrong
    but to what degree when this the today's norm and saving herself I hope noone try to
    display that video here at DESTEE's because we won't allow it here ..........
    I don't condone this behavior and yes we need to talk to our children more to save them
    from shame like this , she can't even go to school let's remember she only 14 gosh
    right now it's like a dark blanket over CHICAGO as if Mr.Freeze frozen time
    this was very hurtful and i think she paid a high price for going low but now how will she
    live with the shame on her head
    people everywhere talking looking pointing instead of embracing /respecting and comforting
    this child , I never saw the video and don't wanna see it . reading about it was hurtful enough
    all i can do is pray for this baby and her family and for the boys who trap her in this maze

    GOD help them all through this bad delt hand in life

    PLEASE FAMILY DON'T DISPLAY THIS CHILD HERE AT DESTEE.COM WE WILL NOT
    CONDONE THIS STUFF HERE AND IT'S NOT WELCOME THAT'S A VIDEO WE CARE NOT
    TO SEE AND HABOR .........

    let's think about her rights /her family and humanity she only a 14 yr old child who
    didn't know the badge of shame that comes with it and she had no clue she was
    being traped and videotaped doing this oral shame .

    This tells us how deeply we have to reach our children /teach and show them the way
    we are there protectors and sadly this child parents can't do the same for her while
    they watch there child be tormented cross the world and badged and talked about
    I can only feel for these parents/family and YOUNG AMBER

    Right now i don't know how i would feel or what i would do but i do know
    i would be hurt/heart frozen and full of anger with shame and not sure how
    i would react to people around me , how i would answer question, this deeper
    then us just saying because we really not in these parents shoes ........sadly sad
     
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    I don't think it had anything t do with YouTube. YouTube is a transparent technology like the Telephone.. This had to do with this girl and her value system.. And this boy and his value system. Legally speaking they are both guilty and can be charged with having sex with a minor.. Yes.. Even though they are both minors.. If this were my child I would pull her from the school.. I would also sue the school district for lack of supervision.. And I would recognize my own failure as a parent to properly raise my daughter.. If this were my son, I would do exactly the same thing.
     
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    I think her parents did ......because she was being harashed by other kids and now she don't
    wanna go to school i think also they are pressing charges against these two young boys
    they all was in fault here but this little girl is really being hit the hardest .....I do hope she be alright
    after this madness uncover from her soul.
     
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    Yeah.. Gotta pass down that victim mentality right away.. Keep folks from actually learning from life. I hope they realize that their daughter can be charged also.. It wasn't rape.. She was willing.. It's a shame we live in this blame oriented society.. The parents need to take a long hard look at themselves and how they're raising their daughter.. All that energy they're spending outward is nothing but a distraction. Putting two more black boys in the penal system is not the answer.. They need To work this out family to family.
     
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    Sister Nevar ... i changed the title of this thread from 14 year old giving oral sex!.......... to Child Harassed on YouTube.

    That title, on our home page ... well ... I just couldn't stand it.

    We are a GrandMomma, GrandDaddy, and Youth friendly community.

    Please try to make titles more fitting for our "G" rating ... GrandMomma and GrandDaddy 'nem ... :)

    Thanks in advance.

    Love You Sister!

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