Black Relationships : Celibacy.......

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  1. Pharaoh Jahil

    Pharaoh Jahil Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Has anyone ever done it and if so for how long and why?

    I'm actually trying it.

    Reason, with the intention of finding that woman I can connect with on a mental-spiritual level (soul mate). I know this sounds corny but I know many sisters and brothers who have become celibate with the same intentions and ended up being successful on their non-sexual journey.

    I think it would be an interesting experience.


    Peace...
     
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    if celibacy is a way to find a mate, it's not celibacy.
     
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    Celibacy...

    Ive done it for 8 months, cold turkey. After being in a relationship and having sex 3.5 times a'day. The first month was hell, my partner now was celibate for 5months, before we met. But, overall.. it forced us to establish a relationship based on mutual respect, appretaition and principles rather than being swooned over fantastic lovemaking. And filliing in the gaps later.
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    Well, I dont think it is corny at all...I understand, I have been and still is and going on 3 years.. I want the deep connection of mentally and spiritually and if my soul-mate is out there my King will find me as I find him.

    Peace
    Angel
     
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    Just out of curiosity, how do you have sex 3.5 times a day? What constituted as the half? For that matter, is there another way to quite sex besides cold turkey?
     
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    ask Bill Clinton about that .05
     
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    Poetic

    Ive done it for 8 months, cold turkey. After being in a relationship and having sex 3.5 times a'day. The first month was hell, my partner now was celibate for 5months, before we met. But, overall.. it forced us to establish a relationship based on mutual respect, appretaition and principles rather than being swooned over fantastic lovemaking. And filliing in the gaps later.


    3-5 times a day!!!!

    Hell, you NEEDED a break.






    PJ

    Except for the rules of fasting during Ramadan, I personally don't see the importance of celibacy.

    Especially for men.

    God told man to be fruitful and multiply, so celibacy is basically a Christian concept.
     
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    ask Bill Clinton about that .5

    there's the hot turkey with mashed potatoes and gravy.
    i thought every body knew that.
     
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    Three months and going strong for me. God has sent me another wife cause that last one was a dud lol all that flash and no pop. My future wifes name is Afiya Orara. Seriously its great to find someone you connect with spirtually as well as mentally let the sex fall into last place and celibacy does that for you.

    In the words of Madea "Cooking, cleaning. Sex was it good? Nope! Major deduction" :laugh:
     
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    I'm celibate by circumstance.
     
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