This is my first posting, I love this website and dig the advice you give so please help me out. up until a few months ago, I did everything right. Never smoked, never drank, and still a virgin which I know is very rare to find in a teenager these days. Anyway, I was doing good until all of a sudden guys just started coming at me out of no where. One guy in particular I've been talking to for a few months now. We flirt a lot and there's some feelings between us but we are just friends. Well lately we've been involved physically and now he's saying he loves me and all but I don't feel the same way and I don't think I ever will. I really like this guy and want to keep him as a friend, but being with him is throwing me off track. How can I let him down easily without hurting him too badly because I know he will be hurt Please give me your advice!