Before coming to Destee.com I was a member of another online black site. What I find is that the same thing persist in these online forums. Folks become angry when you have a difference of opinion It seems that people feel uneasy having to go against the crowd There are those who think they know it all and must have the last word on every subject. People need to understand that they may NEVER meet any of the members here, so why should they be hesitant in expressing their views. I believe the way people respond here is the way they would respond in the real world and their true colours come out. You can tell the attitude of people by the contentious way they approach the threads. Folks we all can agree to disagree without being disagreeable. I think that maturity is the key. Every one has an opinion and remember an OPINION is not a FACT. Not sure about others here, but I have a life OTHER than on Destee. I work hard each day at my job plus I have a craft business, so when I come here my aim is not to be petty and contentious. I love it here and I believe we can be more civil. I think a good thing would be to discuss some other topics which are not so divisive.