Discussion in 'Black Astrology' started by MORE, Jul 31, 2003.
Are cancers notorious for holding grudges? what causes this planet wise?
aqil, are u there?? lol
I don't that's true because I'm a cancer and let things go because life is too short to be cying about spilled milk. I think u believe that because we're so emotional
hmmm, well im not sure, yes indeed cancers are emotional, but try to hide it under a tough shell, whereas i am a leo and i express my emotions readily.....lol
I don't think that's true, I'm a Cancer and I don't hold grudges, I just cut um and leave it at that, not too deep, but deep enough, that way I can get on with my life....lol.... lol
No, I'm very forgiving
I am a Cancer and I have held grudges in the past. I didn't realize that I did until I got older. Usually if someone does something to me then I will say what I have to say to them and will not bother with them anymore. I have notice that I hold a grudge against a person to whom I have done nothing wrong, but that person has chosen me to try to take advantage of. . Dealing with close friends of different astrological signs has taught me how to deal with people's attitudes and personalities. Going through situations in relationships no matter if they were intimate or just platonic has given me tougher skin and taught me not to take the bull crap/drama that some people feel that they need to bring in order to survive.
I am also a cancer. I learned long ago it's not worth it to hold grudges, it's much more peaceful to forgive and move on. I feel most cancers are loving people and have serious struggles trying to remain angry or "hate" someone. Overall, once I let someone inside my circle of friends we are friends for life!
Being a cancer also, I find holding a grudge so draining. Although I might not forget what a persons has done or said to cause me harm, I usually move very quickly past it. Especially if a person says something unintentionally that I found humor in. My need to smile and laugh seems to out weigh my temper.
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