http://www.africana.com/articles/daily/mu20040414tipdrill.asp Black News, Entertainment, Style and Culture - HuffPost Black Voices Get Black entertainment and politics news, money and beauty advice, and discuss the issues that matter most to the African American community. huffingtonpost.com Which is the greater good? Spellman ladies were right in my own opinion. This connects to "Does Race Matter in Rape" thread in the women's section; and how I had stated that sometimes We put historical racial perspectives (past and present); on how We deal with those who "hurt" Us. So, because Nelly was there for a wonderful and great and needed reason; should the women have made that paramount over the disgusting, degrading images that He portray of black women-- which I suggest hurts the majority of Us even more?