Black Relationships : Can you be ugly AND sexy...all at the same time?

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  1. Azn-Sunshine

    Azn-Sunshine Member MEMBER

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    My friends and I were having a dicussion about unattractive but sexy people.....It sounds like an oxymoron.... some say that is not possible.... I say it is absolutely possible just because looks are not everything..... and I feel that being sexy is a state of mind.... ex: ur talk, walk, the way you carry urself.....

    Am I correct??
     
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    i have to agree

    looks are definitely not everything

    it's a combination of personality, style, and charm
    to make a complete package

    some people can have the most bland personality

    peace

    pd

    :heart:
     
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    NNQueen going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Sunshine...

    You're right..."sexy is a state of mind," and not everybody's mind perceives things exactly the same.

    So, it boils down to how an individual defines "ugly" and "sexy"...

    Some people only see with their eyes and never go deeper than that.

    Some people see past the flesh to look into a place that the naked eye can't see but your "3rd" eye can.

    So, two people can look at the same person and see two entirely different individuals. Just depends on what you're looking for.

    But you knew that already, right? :)
     
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    NNQueen going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Btw, I like your tag line, Sunshine! :)
     
  5. Azn-Sunshine

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    Thankie NNQueen......

    And I TOTALLY agree with you.... everyone has their likes and dislikes........ all depending on the person. :)
     
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    I believe sexy is what you feel, and ugly is what you see.

    Unlike the real world, where you see first and feel later, the internet facilitates the converse.

    In terms of could both occur, in my opinion, the answer is yes.


    Are you ugly or sexy? [Please forgive me, I had to ask. :)]
     
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    indeed sexy is the mindful thoughts
    yet ulgly is beautiful the ladies express it so well
    the answer is most def YESSSSSSS!!
     
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    Azn-Sunshine Member MEMBER

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    Who is that question [email protected]_A
     
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    NNQueen going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Sunshine, it's your thread so I would think the question is for you to respond to.

    :)
     
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    Well....lol

    I think I'm sexy..... but I am also not everyone's "type" .... What one thing is unsexy one may feel is sexy and vise versa...... :)
     
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