Black Relationships : Can I Have Your Number or You Can Have Mine?

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  1. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Is it true that when it comes to a guy being interested in a woman that instead of her giving out her number, that he should give his number and it be up to her to call? I've heard folks say this alot and I'm not sure if that's true or if it's the "norm" being that if he asks her for her phone number that he is interested...but what if he never uses that number..? I really am not sure if there is a "right" or "wrong" as far as etiquette regarding exchange of phone numbers lol
     
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    LOL...just do what works best for you...
     
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    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'd like the everyone on here to say how they usually go about doing that.... i find this topic to be interesting!
     
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    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    There is no right or wrong when it comes to passing a number
    I've asked for numbers and have given my number
    why both .....sometime body language speaks louder to if she want to give or recieve
    a number but it doesn't matter who give as long as they connect or make a connection
    now if a woman give and he don't call she normally moves on and often
    if she have the number and don't call tells a brother she really not intrested.
     
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    I usually will give my number and then wait for the call. I don't like to pursue, I like to be pursued, lol. Not saying that you have to chase me, but I like for the man to make the first move. Unless you are just too fine and got a really good head on your shoulders...then I just can't help myself.
     
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    Exactly $$RICH$$...

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    If a guy is interested in you he doesn't care if you call him or he gets your number...Either way he wants to talk to you...

    Also if the woman gets his number and the woman calls him it's not making the woman seem desperate...Now calling him repeatedly does.

    There is no wrong or right way for who should have whose #....Those are minor details IMO
     
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    LOL...So true!
     
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    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    what if a guy asks for your number, and you give it to them, but they never use it? isnt that just plain dumb?
     
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    It may be because he lost your number...I've gotten numbers from guys and lost their #....

    But if doesn't call you, then it's his loss...not yours.
     
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    yes your correct and yes anyone who calls back to back to back is desperate or hard up
    then you should know there they not the one , if i call no answer leave a message and done
    if she call back cool if she don't then she not intrested , let it go move on not call again and
    again you become a phone stalker and a bug-a-boo !
    sometime it all depend on who the aggressor is she can be a very agressive woman and
    pursuit his number and sometime she not and wait for him to act and ask....

    I've seen this in many different ways take place to there is no right or wrong on it
    just how you handle self in the mist of doing it , some guys turn offs women when they
    insist for a number or persue too hard and likewise when it comes to a woman she can
    run him off by acting desperate.
     
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