Okay, I have been associates with a guy I'll call "Leigh" and his little brother "Al" for about 6 months. I spotted him some time last year and thought that he was cute. However, once we actually met(twice through mutual friends), he acted indifferrent towards me. Months passed and we didn't see each other. At an event, I was introduced to him yet again (trust me-this was not my doing), I received the same indifference that I did at the party we attended. So,at this event we attended, time had passed, his brother Al spotted me, tapped Leigh and came up to me and started chopping it up with me. From that time onward-he was trying to get my attention. Leigh is 22. I am 24, so there is a two year(really 5year ) difference between us. It never failed yall- everytime we were in the same room there he was vying for my attention. I went over to his house once (his brother invited me) he ear hustled and absorbed practically EVERYTHING that I said. Now, there were other people at this shin-dig, other females includig one that he was supposedly feeling. Fast forward to the present,on one occasion we slept together(which led to many sexual romps thereafter). From there on out, whenever we were out together(with other people) and other guys were around-he made sure that he was around, like a bodyguard!. We shared a couple of intimate moments, rare but still we had'em. But the problem is this: He doesn't Call/text/email unless I do it first. He's not a phone person, this I know. But still, it's like whats the deal? He knows how to text me when he wants to come over!. I don't understand it. I have never pressured him to be my man. After sex, he just leaves hell- we don't even kiss during it. I'm sure there is something that I can't see so, I'm coming to yall for some clarification. Help me. If he's feeling me-why doesn't he want to communicate with me? Does he even "feel" me at all?. He's terretorial-why would he be if he doesn't have any interest to be with me?. AT a party he got upset cuz my close male-friend danced provacative for me.