Black People : Can a man tell a woman how to be woman (vice versa)?

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  1. MsInterpret

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    Can a man tell a woman how to be a woman? And can a woman tell a man how to be a man?

     
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    What do you mean?
     
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    A younger man and I were having a short conversation about the difference between a hoe and a woman...and I was telling him that I would know more about being a woman then him, but he tried to say that he knew more about how women act then I do...and he was trying to tell me how women should act....discrediting the fact that I have live as a woman for twenty some odd years

     
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    No he can't , he can tell her what he is looking for in a woman and like wise vice versa,
    what he didn't realize was no matter if she a house lady or a street hooker/hoe, they all
    still a woman whom know herself better then anyone !

    You can't tell a woman how to be a woman no more then what you like and wish for in a woman
    of one's choice which he so likes and the same for a woman on a man.
     
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    sounds like a battle of self-definitions.. both of you are right..

    but.. what did he say the difference was between a hoe and lady?
     
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    He said now of days there is no difference

     
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    .. he just wanted to say something to you.. you have to remember that we
    sometimes do things just to be near you guys.. like talk nonsense.. or
    start arguments.. like the way James used to folllow you around poking at
    you.. same thing.
     
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    The bond of true parental love is one of the greatest forces known to humanity and mankind

    In a nihilistic mechanized materialistic world such as this ,
    there are unfortunate circumstances,
    when one parent dies,

    and the mother in her love, and by the virtue of the God in her, can teach her son to be a man and will get the assistance of positive men to be in his life, to further mentor

    and the father in his love and by virtue of the God in him, can teach his daughter to be a lady,
    and get the assistance of positive women to be in her life to mentor.
     
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    Nowadays there's no difference?

    Maybe I'm tripping, but I'd think he just called us all hoes.
     
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    No on both counts.

    jmho.
     
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