Black People : Busted Friendships

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  1. WingZero(0)

    WingZero(0) Banned MEMBER

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    Hello Everyone!

    I was just wondering... Has anyone made a mistake involving a friendship with someone that they have known for a long time?

    I ended a phone conversation with my friend of ten years just because he needed assistance and I couldn't help him. I called him retarded and I hung up on him.

    I probably made a big mistake. We may never be friends again.

    Anybody here in a similiar situation with one of their friends right now?

    What can I do to save my friendship?


    Please respond as soon as possible.

    Peace
     
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    OmowaleX Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    lol!

    Repent...
     
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    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU

    I HAVE FRIENDS I'VE KNOW FROM 8 EIGHT YEARS OLD

    AND WE HAVE CUSSED EACH OTHER NOT AGREED ON STUFF

    I'VE BEEN SCREAMED AT BY THEM
    I'VE SCREAMED AT THE THEM

    BUT WHATEVER HAPPENS AT THE END OF THE DAY WE KNOW WE ARE FAMILY

    AND WE HAVE OUR BEST INTEREST IN MIND

    THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT IN FRIENDSHIPS
    YOU DON'T NEED FRIENDS BRINGING YOU DOWN

    AND WE UNDERSTAND THAT NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT IT HAS ITS' BUMPS

    AND THE FUNNY THINGS IS ALL MY FRIENDS ARE LIKE ME STRONG, CARING, NO NONSENSE, AND ALWAYS ON CALL IF I NEED THEM OR THEY NEED ME


    IF THIS IS YOUR FRIEND THEN THEY'LL BE BACK

    BUT YOU DIDN'T SHOW MUCH FRIENDSHIP BY HANGING UP ON THEM IN THEIR TIME OF NEED

    YOU NEED TO CALL THEM AND APOLOGIZE

    YOU DON'T HANG UP ON YOUR "FRIENDS"

    ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY NEED YOUR HELP

    IF THIS PERSON IS YOUR FRIEND YOU NEED TO BEG FOR FORGIVENESS
     
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    Monetary going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Call him back and apologize for calling him names and hanging up on him. Tell him you have his back although you can't help him right now and that you wish him the best of luck.

    However, if you can help him in any other way, do so.
     
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