These are questions that many black women do not ask black men. Keeping it real my brothers what are your views on marriage and wife material? Keep it real and speak from your heart. Is it true that men are afraid to speak there true feelings? fairing that it gives women the impressions that a man is weak. Speaking from the heart and not the ego are men afraid of the negative images of marriage. Explain to sisters the positive effects that can make the bond between black men and women stronger. What can the black women contribute to relations and breaking the obstacles that stand in the way of unity for all black men and women. Examples: Men feel that women give the image of black men a bad portrayal . Women feel the same and both are right, this enhances the roles of destructions. It is call conservative racism judging a person by another persons actions, judging the image but not the man. Can we break this stereotypes because It is destroying the foundations of relationships among black women and men. There are many positives sisters as well as brothers. How can we look beyond the images of sterotypes and come together as one.