Brothers do you have good Brotherfriends whom build you up..

Discussion in 'Black Men - Fathers - Brothers - Sons' started by Auroraflower, Dec 30, 2006.

  1. Auroraflower

    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2004
    Messages:
    1,008
    Likes Received:
    35
    Ratings:
    +35
    you know i was just wondering...


    you know the ones who tell you the truth..
    wish you the best..
    are not jalours of you..
    the ones who pray with you ..
    when you need a strong prayer....
    and whom are not ashamed for it to do it..


    the ones who are not a shamed to Give you a BROTHERLY HUG...

    the ones whom you can just smile with feel the energie WITHOUT the 2 of you LOOKING To EACHOTHER like ""ARE YOU GAY"



    the ones whom stick with you nomather what except fot them to admire the beast or babylon




    Do you have a brother friend standing beside you like that (it doesnt mather what race or colour....)
    or around you...

    rather he is from church or not from church believe or not believe...


    that doesnt matter has he lovefor you inside for you...



    do you ?





    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
  2. robboy2003

    robboy2003 Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Nov 23, 2006
    Messages:
    330
    Likes Received:
    5
    Occupation:
    To bring strength and a calming influence,and to s
    Location:
    The Ville
    Ratings:
    +5
    If you don't count my son, actually no Auroraflower. I've often times said he is the most impressive dude,that i've ever met. I've always done my own thing,and no i've never had a man that I was friends with on that level.

    Great post! Peace and Be Blessed sista!
     
  3. anAfrican

    anAfrican Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2005
    Messages:
    3,484
    Likes Received:
    711
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    The Meek !Shall! Inherit the Earth.
    Location:
    StreetNationEarth: Seattle
    Ratings:
    +745
    THANK YOU, "SISTER/MOMMA_EARTHHEART"

    Ahhh!! Sister Auroraflower, you are indeed a FlowerofLiberty! Thank you!


    "Are the Friendships/Partners/"Homies" really real, all the time?" It never feels good to have to ask this question. And sometimes we fight our OwnSelves to ignore those instances when the question does arise. .. And each time that it re-arises .. Until we just stop really asking and grow "hardened".

    But it Truly is a Wondrously Grand Blessing (not that we'd ever put it in those terms; we have our image to maintain, ya know! :wink: ) when we KNOW we have "Brotherfriends" that are always there, and, sometimes almost even better; that we can be there for when they need it!

    Thank you for reminding us of this Good Feeling! Something Good would be most Welcome right now, eh?

    I actually haven't had until very recently and it is "nervy-making"/new for both parties. But we both recognize the Value of "Brotherfriends" while we are forced to realize that we know that this has been the exact lack that has not allowed us to maintain our "grounding".

    Yeah; "Friend" IS Good. In fact, that reminder was my "bestest birfday present ever" this year, and it was given to me by another of our Blessed Sisters right here at Destee!!

    You are Very Very Good!! This is the exact issue underlying the "wtf? why!!" that keeps us occasionally repeating the current spate of threads. The concept of "Friends", as well as a reaffirmation, "lest we forget", of OUR Family Values, will go a long way toward the Healing.

    Thank YOU!
     
  4. robboy2003

    robboy2003 Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Nov 23, 2006
    Messages:
    330
    Likes Received:
    5
    Occupation:
    To bring strength and a calming influence,and to s
    Location:
    The Ville
    Ratings:
    +5
    I just hit this thread again to concur what brother anAfrican just said. This is a positive solution right here and you'll a powerful sister!

    I am a fellow,and I'm not bitter about it:kiss: but the love generally from other women,and i know women that the opposite is true. It can be confusing sometimes. Truth is we are still looking up to you women on knowing how to feel. My wife still cries for me. I love her for it,but i just can't shed'em.

    Again, rightous post sister and peace!
     
  5. Auroraflower

    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2004
    Messages:
    1,008
    Likes Received:
    35
    Ratings:
    +35
    hi thanks for youre responding ...

    I think its verry inportent these days...




    ,ill be praying for yall..

    connecting and encouriage eachother in Gods way...







    Rise up ..


    man oF GOd



    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
  6. MANASIAC

    MANASIAC Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Mar 10, 2004
    Messages:
    1,904
    Likes Received:
    37
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Technical Analyst
    Location:
    ATL SHAWTY! Mr. Coli Park
    Ratings:
    +38
    I got my trinity - Will J - Brian Fair - Dr. P.
     
  7. Edward Williams

    Edward Williams Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Jan 14, 2006
    Messages:
    870
    Likes Received:
    58
    Occupation:
    Produce Justice
    Location:
    Right here!
    Ratings:
    +58
    I don't have any friends.

    My definition of a friend is a person who will die for me and I will die for them. I'm not going to die for them, which is why, based on my definition for what a friend is, I don't have any friends. If someone will die for me they will just die for me. Having a friend that is dead has no practical value.

    Sounds a little cold I know...but it is practical. What this means is I make sure my interaction with people is constructive...friend or not. That is usually the interaction people expect from friends but they can get it from me and they don't have to even know me. Help help Borthers and they help me and our interaction is constructive at all times or our interaction is non-existent at all times. Simple.
     
  8. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2001
    Messages:
    69,983
    Likes Received:
    3,978
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    BUSINESS owner
    Location:
    Da~WINDY*CITY //CHICAGO
    Ratings:
    +4,178
    honestly No ..........A true friend is a friend indeed one who will go that
    mile for you which most won't .......Friendship is hard to find in today's time
    but i can say i have a few brother's who will go out on the limb and do what
    they can and i will just the same for them beyond hugs ...surely we all can
    pray together and laugh together but to fight in the same battle we seem to
    have different sides but in the same war ......
     
  9. oldiesman

    oldiesman Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Feb 9, 2006
    Messages:
    1,539
    Likes Received:
    119
    Ratings:
    +120
    brothers do you...

    i'm lucky to have several male friends to let my hair down with and i and they know that anything said in[confidence]will go no further.
     
  10. fair_guy

    fair_guy Member MEMBER

    Joined:
    Dec 6, 2007
    Messages:
    14
    Likes Received:
    0
    Ratings:
    +0
    No, not really. But it really has nothing to do with me and more to do with a social stigma against my kind...:qqb002:
     
Loading...
Similar Threads - Brothers Brotherfriends whom
  1. AACOOLDRE
    Replies:
    0
    Views:
    102
  2. jamesfrmphilly
    Replies:
    5
    Views:
    198
  3. Al D
    Replies:
    0
    Views:
    235
  4. IFE
    Replies:
    0
    Views:
    334
  5. 1poetsought
    Replies:
    3
    Views:
    569