I guess I'll start this shin-dig off.
The first choice I would make is to increase my love for myself. I would block out everything that is an attack on my personal character, because of who I am becoming. I will increase the forgiveness I give to myself. I will affirm myself more. And I would do this to become strong enough to help others. I will learn all I can to build up who I am becoming, and not limit myself to the limiting opinions of who others say I should be. I will be unafraid to dream, to plan, to conquer setbacks, to pray, to love, to hope, and to help.
The second set of choices I would change are my friends. I would not choose friends who affect me negatively on a consistent basis. My friends would sharpen who I am becoming and encourage me, even correcting me when necessary, respectfully.
The third choice set I would change relates to dating. I will commit to taking time to know the woman I am interested in. I will not be rushed into making a marital decision. As the old song goes, "take time to know her." Rushing in is for fools, and I've been a fool once already. Since I have no more gimmies to use in this area, I guess I better make smarter decisions. If you are not willing to commit the time into being real with me, I WILL drop you and move on. Call it cold or whatever you want, but a brother has a destiny to meet and those who hinder me are wasting my time.
Fourth would be money and business choices. I will study and apply both knowledge and faith to this subject, and I WILL be successful in all my endeavors. And I will use my success as an opportunity to truly help others in need who sincerely want to be helped. And I will help train brothers who aspire to achieve their goals as well.
Not specific, but those are the general spectrum of my choice areas. I have not always thought this way. For many years, I was influenced by negative people into thinking that I had nothing to hope for, to offer others, to give in terms of love or friendship. Now that I see that those past sayings were lies, I plan to come at the world full force with all that I am.