Men don't get pregnant and water (natural force) cannot flow where the dike is sealed.
In this IMMORAL society, rather than admit that their culture is wrong, they are inclined to blame the man. (which is like blaming water for the flood when YOU opened the floodgates)
So if I understand you correctly, our culture is not perfect. I agree with that and we have some serious problems to deal with.
If the latter part is saying that the man shouldn't share any of the blame then I have to disagree. it's the same as blaming the woman for everything.
Where is the responsibility, pride, and self control that we as men always brag about? Are they hollow words just to shore up our false pride, or do we really mean them?
It's one glaring point that is being overlooked, and that is the 25+ kids that is being slighted, yes slighted because it's a known fact it's better to raise a child with two parents instead of one.
Peace!