Brother Ankhur

Discussion in 'Violators and Violations (Possible Ones)' started by Destee, Feb 12, 2010.

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  1. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    I said that I would help you reign in what appears to be an overwhelming desire to share. Well, after reading this post, I realize that there's not much help I can give you. This is a community of many individuals, and as much as i want each one to be able to remain with us, i can't personally teach each one how. Every Member must bring with them, the ability to interact respectfully with others.

    Brother Ankhur, you can be irritating, and it's not all just about Spirituality and Religion. You and i shared in a discussion regarding politics, and you followed me around the forum, from thread to thread, bringing up that previous discussion. It was so irritating! I was eventually able to shake you, but it took a minute, and i can imagine everyone else not being as successful as i was. That's not fair Brother Ankhur.

    I understand you have topics that are important to you, but this community is not just about you. Other Members consider their topics important too. You can't overwhelm everything, with your words. Everyone wants their words to be seen, shared, discussed, etc., you can't just be pushing yours all to the top every single time ... it's rude. When there are more people present than just yourself, you've got to get in where you fit in, leave a little room for the next person's thread and topic, be considerate ... if you want to remain with us.

    I believe you know when you are being rude, irritating, overwhelming, overbearing, etc., and i hope you choose to stop.

    Much Love and Peace.

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  2. Nelson Ankh

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    interesting....
     
  3. WARRIOR

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    SIS. DESTEE...

    SHOULDN'T HE GET....IN THE LEAST.....A WARNING ??

    OR......IS YOUR POST A WARNING TO HIM ?

    AND IF YOUR POST IS A WARNING , SHOULDN'T IT BE FORMAL ?


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  4. Destee

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    Brother WARRIOR ... Peace and Blessings.

    Yes, this is an official warning to Brother Ankhur, and he will be suspended / banned if he can't pull it together.

    Sorry i wasn't more clear.

    Love You!

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  5. Ankhur

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    I understand your point

    Exactly what rules have I brocken and what am I accused of?

    In regards to our conversation about the president of the United States ,
    I did not insult the man,
    ridicule the man, c
    astigate the man or
    call him out of his name,
    but some felt the need to label me as a hater just for posting facts that any citizen of the United States has the right to do

    and several posts were made in demonization of me as a hater and a traitor to the race just for posting information, therefore if my posting to defend myself and create an understanding where there was misunderstandin,

    if that labes me as an irritant then I apologize

    Therer is a double standard here that if one wold examine those who thanked this message that they have
    CURSED ME
    CALLED ME WHITE
    INVADED MY POST WITH HATEFULL REMARKS REGARDING THE BLACK COMMUNITY
    AND TROLLED ME

    BROUGHT UP OLD POSTS IN ORDER TO DEMONIZE ME AND RESTART OLD CONFLICTS

    Now if one looks at those who complain about my number of posts t is clear that they were seeking to be top poster which is never my goal, just provide information that many here would want to know

    Also in regards to the posts made in the Religion section, why is there no mention of folks who say :
    KILL JESUS AND GOD
    or
    ALL BLACK CHRISTIANS SHOULD BE KILLED

    or those who break every single rule of Destee when one examines their statistics;
    CURSING
    POSTING THINGS NOT RELEVANT TO A POST
    SLANDER
    INSULTS
    PERSONAL THREATS OF PHYSICAL HARM

    therefore where are the moderators in this regard unless this is about favoritism?

    Now the point of my posts and emphasi , are they a detriment to Destee?

    Is there a restriction rule on the number of posts, then I will comply, and if you have "favored select posters" that you don't want me to within my rights post on in regards to the subject matter and they have placed an "order of protection" then I will comply as well,

    but if I am accused of something I really expect my own people to show some evidence rather then treat my like the oligarchy courts treat Black men and castigate or condemn me based on the complaints of folks who have violated the things I am accused of and then some.

    and it has been my experience that the supervisors will allow the drug addicts and winos on the job to get away with murder, and shirk thier work while I busted my hump, but if i had an emergency call or had to go to the rest room they would time after time rat me out to the supervisor and say that i abandoned my place of work, so I am well aware of double standards.
     
  6. Ankhur

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    now if the haters influence this website folks should be honest about that
     
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    why they gotta be "haters"?

    proving her point for her, yes?
     
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    there is a simple thing called logic and science

    and for nyone to understand my statement, all that is needed is to look at the individuals statistics and how they interacted ina simple discussion or debate, with maturity or slander, insults, name calling and foul language, now hater may be a harsh term but how wold you describe such behavior?
     
  9. Destee

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    Brother Ankhur ... i will not babysit you or anyone's personal interactions with other adults.

    Each Member must be able to negotiate a base level (albeit high) of respectful interaction with others, or leave here.

    I'm closing this thread and hoping you choose to control your own self, for if you can't, there will be no further fanfare.

    Love You!

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  10. Destee

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    Brother Ankhur was suspended for 2 weeks ... in this post.

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